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	<title>Comments on: When it pays to not act like a lady….by Allegra Gray</title>
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		<title>By: Allegra</title>
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		<dc:creator>Allegra</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 04 Jul 2009 05:07:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Well, it&#039;s getting late here.  Thank you, ladies, for your comments today.

And the winner of a copy of &quot;Nothing But Scandal&quot; is.... Becky!  

Congratulations, and if you&#039;ll email me at allegra@allegragray.com with you address, I&#039;ll send it out this week.  

Good night!

Allegra</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Well, it&#8217;s getting late here.  Thank you, ladies, for your comments today.</p>
<p>And the winner of a copy of &#8220;Nothing But Scandal&#8221; is&#8230;. Becky!  </p>
<p>Congratulations, and if you&#8217;ll email me at <a href="mailto:allegra@allegragray.com">allegra@allegragray.com</a> with you address, I&#8217;ll send it out this week.  </p>
<p>Good night!</p>
<p>Allegra</p>
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		<title>By: Allegra</title>
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		<dc:creator>Allegra</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 03 Jul 2009 19:02:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>wow, lots of job quitting and taking risks on men!  Wonder why men have to be so risky?  :lol: 

Minx, congratulations on being with your DH for 10 years, and finishing your masters, too!

And Mari, I have to say I&#039;m totally jealous of your around-the-world adventure!  

Allegra</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>wow, lots of job quitting and taking risks on men!  Wonder why men have to be so risky?  <img src='http://www.naughty-and-spice.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_lol.gif' alt=':lol:' class='wp-smiley' />  </p>
<p>Minx, congratulations on being with your DH for 10 years, and finishing your masters, too!</p>
<p>And Mari, I have to say I&#8217;m totally jealous of your around-the-world adventure!  </p>
<p>Allegra</p>
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		<title>By: Allegra</title>
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		<dc:creator>Allegra</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 03 Jul 2009 18:59:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Roberta,

How romantic!  :grin:   One week?  That definitely sounds like an example of when NOT acting like a lady paid off!  :woot: 

Allegra</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Roberta,</p>
<p>How romantic!  <img src='http://www.naughty-and-spice.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_biggrin.gif' alt=':grin:' class='wp-smiley' />    One week?  That definitely sounds like an example of when NOT acting like a lady paid off!  :woot: </p>
<p>Allegra</p>
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		<title>By: Allegra</title>
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		<dc:creator>Allegra</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 03 Jul 2009 18:56:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Helen,

thanks for stopping by!  Glad you took the risk on sending out your writing   :smile:   I think we all have more to learn...if you ever stop learning, what more is left to explore and enjoy?

Allegra</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Helen,</p>
<p>thanks for stopping by!  Glad you took the risk on sending out your writing   <img src='http://www.naughty-and-spice.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':smile:' class='wp-smiley' />    I think we all have more to learn&#8230;if you ever stop learning, what more is left to explore and enjoy?</p>
<p>Allegra</p>
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		<title>By: Mari</title>
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		<dc:creator>Mari</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 03 Jul 2009 18:23:39 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>The biggest risk I ever took was quitting my job and buying an around the world ticket and traveling for 11 months. It was totally worth it and an unforgetable experience.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The biggest risk I ever took was quitting my job and buying an around the world ticket and traveling for 11 months. It was totally worth it and an unforgetable experience.</p>
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		<title>By: Minx Malone</title>
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		<dc:creator>Minx Malone</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 03 Jul 2009 18:17:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Getting engaged to my college sweetheart (who I met when I was 17!) was my biggest gamble.

I know my family was really worried about it, afraid I wouldn&#039;t finish my education.  Well not only did I finish but I went on to get my Master&#039;s degree as well.  Plus the DH and I have been together 10 years now.  Definitely paid off! :evillaugh: 

Minx Malone
http://thenaughtygirlsnextdoor.blogspot.com/</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Getting engaged to my college sweetheart (who I met when I was 17!) was my biggest gamble.</p>
<p>I know my family was really worried about it, afraid I wouldn&#8217;t finish my education.  Well not only did I finish but I went on to get my Master&#8217;s degree as well.  Plus the DH and I have been together 10 years now.  Definitely paid off! :evillaugh: </p>
<p>Minx Malone<br />
<a href="http://thenaughtygirlsnextdoor.blogspot.com/" rel="nofollow">http://thenaughtygirlsnextdoor.blogspot.com/</a></p>
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		<title>By: Roberta Harwell</title>
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		<dc:creator>Roberta Harwell</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 03 Jul 2009 16:36:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hello Allegra,

First, love the way you described your book and the term lady. The biggest risk I ever took was on my husband. You see he was a friend of a friend. We got together one night. A week later, he moved in with me. Four months later, we moved to Kentucky to be near his family. On July 14, we will have been together 7 years and counting. I literally took a leap of faith and have never regretted a minute of it. Have a great day.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hello Allegra,</p>
<p>First, love the way you described your book and the term lady. The biggest risk I ever took was on my husband. You see he was a friend of a friend. We got together one night. A week later, he moved in with me. Four months later, we moved to Kentucky to be near his family. On July 14, we will have been together 7 years and counting. I literally took a leap of faith and have never regretted a minute of it. Have a great day.</p>
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		<title>By: Helen Hardt</title>
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		<dc:creator>Helen Hardt</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 03 Jul 2009 16:28:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Allegra, I&#039;m looking forward to your book!  I love Regencies, and I love supporting fellow chaptermates  :grin: .  As for risk taking?  I, too, left a job back in 1991 without another one lined up.  But then I ended up pregnant and stopped working full time anyway  :lol: .  One of the biggest risks I took writing-wise was sending in my first manuscript to agents and editors who requested it at the first conference I attended -- and I found out how much I had to learn yet  :cry: !  That turned out to be the best thing I ever did.  I educated myself and my writing improved dramatically :smile: .

Have a great holiday tomorrow!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Allegra, I&#8217;m looking forward to your book!  I love Regencies, and I love supporting fellow chaptermates  <img src='http://www.naughty-and-spice.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_biggrin.gif' alt=':grin:' class='wp-smiley' />  .  As for risk taking?  I, too, left a job back in 1991 without another one lined up.  But then I ended up pregnant and stopped working full time anyway  <img src='http://www.naughty-and-spice.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_lol.gif' alt=':lol:' class='wp-smiley' />  .  One of the biggest risks I took writing-wise was sending in my first manuscript to agents and editors who requested it at the first conference I attended &#8212; and I found out how much I had to learn yet  <img src='http://www.naughty-and-spice.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_cry.gif' alt=':cry:' class='wp-smiley' />  !  That turned out to be the best thing I ever did.  I educated myself and my writing improved dramatically <img src='http://www.naughty-and-spice.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':smile:' class='wp-smiley' />  .</p>
<p>Have a great holiday tomorrow!</p>
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		<title>By: Allegra</title>
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		<dc:creator>Allegra</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 03 Jul 2009 16:03:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Joye,

Thanks for stopping by, and for adding me to your list to read  :smile: 

I like &quot;boy next door&quot; stories. Unfortunately, the house next to me is currently vacant, so I don&#039;t think I&#039;ll be finding one of my own any time soon  :mrgreen: !  

Happy reading!

Allegra</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Joye,</p>
<p>Thanks for stopping by, and for adding me to your list to read  <img src='http://www.naughty-and-spice.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':smile:' class='wp-smiley' />  </p>
<p>I like &#8220;boy next door&#8221; stories. Unfortunately, the house next to me is currently vacant, so I don&#8217;t think I&#8217;ll be finding one of my own any time soon  <img src='http://www.naughty-and-spice.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_mrgreen.gif' alt=':mrgreen:' class='wp-smiley' />  !  </p>
<p>Happy reading!</p>
<p>Allegra</p>
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		<title>By: Allegra</title>
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		<dc:creator>Allegra</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 03 Jul 2009 16:01:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Robin,

Hi!   :wave: Okay, I knew you &quot;took a chance&quot; on an Englishman, but I never knew you ditched a boyfriend of 2 years to do it  :shock: !  Peter must be a  :lovemachine:   (yes, I&#039;m totally playing with all the funny little icons this blog lets you use!).

Anyway, clearly a risk that paid off!

Allegra</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Robin,</p>
<p>Hi!   :wave: Okay, I knew you &#8220;took a chance&#8221; on an Englishman, but I never knew you ditched a boyfriend of 2 years to do it  <img src='http://www.naughty-and-spice.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_eek.gif' alt=':shock:' class='wp-smiley' />  !  Peter must be a  :lovemachine:   (yes, I&#8217;m totally playing with all the funny little icons this blog lets you use!).</p>
<p>Anyway, clearly a risk that paid off!</p>
<p>Allegra</p>
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