Comments on: Men and Women http://www.naughty-and-spice.com/2007/08/16/men-and-women/ An you thought we were just bad in our books... Tue, 06 Jan 2009 11:21:08 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.2 By: Zack http://www.naughty-and-spice.com/2007/08/16/men-and-women/#comment-1028 Zack Sat, 18 Aug 2007 17:19:47 +0000 http://www.naughty-and-spice.com/2007/08/16/men-and-women/#comment-1028 Of course men and women can be friends. I have many women friends, mostly married now, and we all have wonderful relationships with each other, continuing over many years. We trust and communicate with each other as well, if not better, than my male friends. But what I think you are talking about in your blog are acquaintances, not good friends. People you meet on/in airplanes, taxis, bars, restaurants, etc., are just passing moments of human interaction--no matter how fun or intense the "connection" may be. I would never come close to fully trust a stranger to be honest and forthright with how they view me (especially if your as hot as Feisty). They and I would have to earn mutual trust through many forms of interaction of a period of time--I guess that's when they could be called a friend, male or female. Of course men and women can be friends. I have many women friends, mostly married now, and we all have wonderful relationships with each other, continuing over many years. We trust and communicate with each other as well, if not better, than my male friends. But what I think you are talking about in your blog are acquaintances, not good friends. People you meet on/in airplanes, taxis, bars, restaurants, etc., are just passing moments of human interaction–no matter how fun or intense the “connection” may be. I would never come close to fully trust a stranger to be honest and forthright with how they view me (especially if your as hot as Feisty). They and I would have to earn mutual trust through many forms of interaction of a period of time–I guess that’s when they could be called a friend, male or female.

]]> By: Rob Graham http://www.naughty-and-spice.com/2007/08/16/men-and-women/#comment-1025 Rob Graham Sat, 18 Aug 2007 13:18:02 +0000 http://www.naughty-and-spice.com/2007/08/16/men-and-women/#comment-1025 All my friends are women. I don't like my gender much. I find them testosterone addled jackasses with bad inferiority complexes for the most part. And since I took an oath of celibacy I find I don't look at women as sexual object any more. Most of the time. ;) All my friends are women.

I don’t like my gender much. I find them testosterone addled jackasses with bad inferiority complexes for the most part.

And since I took an oath of celibacy I find I don’t look at women as sexual object any more.

Most of the time. ;)

]]> By: Karen http://www.naughty-and-spice.com/2007/08/16/men-and-women/#comment-1020 Karen Fri, 17 Aug 2007 15:47:12 +0000 http://www.naughty-and-spice.com/2007/08/16/men-and-women/#comment-1020 Like Julie said I've had lots of male friends because of where I worked. It was almost all men and though they would make the inappropriate joke here and there (ok more here than there but that's beside the point) I was friends with many of them. Still am (though I don't work there anymore). Of course I met my husband there and we were friends first. I always thought he was the greatest guy - then realized hey I WANT that great guy! :hitit: LOL Like Julie said I’ve had lots of male friends because of where I worked. It was almost all men and though they would make the inappropriate joke here and there (ok more here than there but that’s beside the point) I was friends with many of them. Still am (though I don’t work there anymore).

Of course I met my husband there and we were friends first. I always thought he was the greatest guy - then realized hey I WANT that great guy! :hitit: LOL

]]> By: Dana http://www.naughty-and-spice.com/2007/08/16/men-and-women/#comment-1019 Dana Fri, 17 Aug 2007 14:23:08 +0000 http://www.naughty-and-spice.com/2007/08/16/men-and-women/#comment-1019 Depends. I have yet to be friends with a guy where I knew for certain both of us didn't want each other. But HEY! It could happen! And you're right. :pow: Your boobs really are a sight to behold. You really did waste them on tranny karaoke though. Depends. I have yet to be friends with a guy where I knew for certain both of us didn’t want each other. But HEY! It could happen!

And you’re right. :pow: Your boobs really are a sight to behold. You really did waste them on tranny karaoke though.

]]> By: Julie S http://www.naughty-and-spice.com/2007/08/16/men-and-women/#comment-1009 Julie S Fri, 17 Aug 2007 00:54:10 +0000 http://www.naughty-and-spice.com/2007/08/16/men-and-women/#comment-1009 Yes, men and woman can definitely be friends. I've always had lots of male friends, mainly because of work. My husband has lots of female friends, again, because of work. However, it's possible that I've had some instances of, shall we say, using my imagination where my guy friends are concerned. Just out of curiousity, ya know? But it would never go beyond that. And if they do the same, I'm cool with that. :badgirl: Yes, men and woman can definitely be friends. I’ve always had lots of male friends, mainly because of work. My husband has lots of female friends, again, because of work.

However, it’s possible that I’ve had some instances of, shall we say, using my imagination where my guy friends are concerned. Just out of curiousity, ya know? But it would never go beyond that. And if they do the same, I’m cool with that.
:badgirl:

]]> By: Samantha Hunter http://www.naughty-and-spice.com/2007/08/16/men-and-women/#comment-1008 Samantha Hunter Thu, 16 Aug 2007 17:52:28 +0000 http://www.naughty-and-spice.com/2007/08/16/men-and-women/#comment-1008 Absolutely they can be just friends. I've also had the pleasure of having several male friends, completely platonic, and it's wonderful. The opposite is also true -- my husband has a female friend from his younger days, and it's great that they are still friends. The best part is that his friends and my friends became our friends, we all get together with their kids and families, but it's also nice to have that friendship history with another person. I love having guy friends. Sam Absolutely they can be just friends. I’ve also had the pleasure of having several male friends, completely platonic, and it’s wonderful. The opposite is also true — my husband has a female friend from his younger days, and it’s great that they are still friends. The best part is that his friends and my friends became our friends, we all get together with their kids and families, but it’s also nice to have that friendship history with another person. I love having guy friends.

Sam

]]> By: Shelli http://www.naughty-and-spice.com/2007/08/16/men-and-women/#comment-1007 Shelli Thu, 16 Aug 2007 15:12:58 +0000 http://www.naughty-and-spice.com/2007/08/16/men-and-women/#comment-1007 I think a man and a woman can totally just be friends. But I will say that I think the man is always imagining what it's like to go to bed with that person. And sometimes the woman does it too. Even if they know they'll never act on it, I still think that thought it there. :hitit: I think a man and a woman can totally just be friends. But I will say that I think the man is always imagining what it’s like to go to bed with that person. And sometimes the woman does it too. Even if they know they’ll never act on it, I still think that thought it there.

:hitit:

]]> By: Feisty http://www.naughty-and-spice.com/2007/08/16/men-and-women/#comment-1006 Feisty Thu, 16 Aug 2007 15:08:56 +0000 http://www.naughty-and-spice.com/2007/08/16/men-and-women/#comment-1006 R.G., well, Coookie is in a class of his own. And we all want to see his naughty bits, so I don't think that counts. Cassie, :sup: I totally agree with everything you said. R.G., well, Coookie is in a class of his own. And we all want to see his naughty bits, so I don’t think that counts.

Cassie, :sup: I totally agree with everything you said.

]]> By: Cassie Ryan http://www.naughty-and-spice.com/2007/08/16/men-and-women/#comment-1005 Cassie Ryan Thu, 16 Aug 2007 14:30:45 +0000 http://www.naughty-and-spice.com/2007/08/16/men-and-women/#comment-1005 I have several guy friends who have no desire to see my naughty bits, and I have absolutely no desire to see theirs. I've always had guy friends, ever since I was a little girl. (Yeah, I tended to be a tomboy) And thankfully my husband isn't the jealous type and knows that guys who are just friends are just that. I'm happily married. But as a normal human woman, there are always guys around who I have that passing moment of "what would it be like to have a wild night with them?" I think that's kind of normal. But I would never act on it. I have a great husband, and would never jeopardize that. But everyone has those curious moments, that doesn't mean those relationships can't remain just friendships. My .02 :) I have several guy friends who have no desire to see my naughty bits, and I have absolutely no desire to see theirs. I’ve always had guy friends, ever since I was a little girl. (Yeah, I tended to be a tomboy) And thankfully my husband isn’t the jealous type and knows that guys who are just friends are just that.

I’m happily married. But as a normal human woman, there are always guys around who I have that passing moment of “what would it be like to have a wild night with them?” I think that’s kind of normal. But I would never act on it. I have a great husband, and would never jeopardize that. But everyone has those curious moments, that doesn’t mean those relationships can’t remain just friendships.

My .02 :)

]]> By: R.G. Alexander http://www.naughty-and-spice.com/2007/08/16/men-and-women/#comment-1004 R.G. Alexander Thu, 16 Aug 2007 05:43:29 +0000 http://www.naughty-and-spice.com/2007/08/16/men-and-women/#comment-1004 hmmm. Well I could say that Cookie thinks you're awesome cause you talk about wild "no filter" things at the dinner table just like him. But he also thinks you're cute so that might not work. I was best friends and roommates with Cookie for five years before we got together-but he says he always wanted to be with me {insert waggling eyebrows here} so once again that doesn't work. I've also had another male friend for five years-crud-we dated BEFORE we became friends-thats like a reverse deletion. Maybe you can be real friends with a man you end things with on good terms-because he's not wondering-he already knows? Maybe I should quit now. :surrender: P.S. Cookie is reading this over my shoulder and listing off all the women he is "just friends" with and with whom he has absolutely no interest in doing the hunka chunka {isnt that a romantic term?} He seems sincere and rather indignant. LOL hmmm. Well I could say that Cookie thinks you’re awesome cause you talk about wild “no filter” things at the dinner table just like him. But he also thinks you’re cute so that might not work.

I was best friends and roommates with Cookie for five years before we got together-but he says he always wanted to be with me {insert waggling eyebrows here} so once again that doesn’t work.

I’ve also had another male friend for five years-crud-we dated BEFORE we became friends-thats like a reverse deletion. Maybe you can be real friends with a man you end things with on good terms-because he’s not wondering-he already knows?

Maybe I should quit now. :surrender:

P.S. Cookie is reading this over my shoulder and listing off all the women he is “just friends” with and with whom he has absolutely no interest in doing the hunka chunka {isnt that a romantic term?} He seems sincere and rather indignant. LOL

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