I would give my right arm for my own office, a room of my own. Preferably far, far away from the rest of my household. Maybe in another state. As I write this I’m sitting on a barstool at my kitchen counter because I write wherever no on else happens to be. So, I’m generally either perched here on my stool, lying in bed or on the sofa. Needless to say, I’m always cramped up from hunching over my computer in all kinds of odd combinations. My fantasy doesn’t involve George Cloony but instead features an ergonomic chair, a big, lovely desk, and bookcases holding all my reference books. And my desk would hold the overflow of post-its and notebooks and pencils I like to have around when I write.
But that is not to be.
We live in a 3 bedroom house. One room is my bedroom, one room belongs to my kid and the third is my husband’s office, which doubles as a guest room. My husband works at home so he’s in there all the time. So, I take my laptop and migrate to whatever corner of the house is vacant when I want to write. I’m at my computer a lot, so sometimes I feel like my laptop is an extension of my body. Wherever I go, there it is.
Okay, so I’d love my own office. Not only because it would be nice to have a stationary place to write, but because, as I mentioned, my husband works at home, too. He’s always around. Always. Take right now for example. When I sat down to write this blog he was in the shower. Now he’s right here, puttering around the kitchen. He’s here a lot. Did I mention that? I try not to be a diva, but I do so much better when I can have some time in the house alone to write. This is a concept my husband doesn’t seem to understand. He doesn’t understand why I roll my eyes when he says, “But honey! I was out of the house six hours this week!”
So, what about you? Do you need a lot of space? Or do you write at the kitchen table surrounded by chaos? I’m getting better at the chaos thing, but still. I’d love a room of my own.