Comments on: We’re here! http://www.naughty-and-spice.com/2007/05/28/were-here/ An you thought we were just bad in our books... Thu, 04 Dec 2008 05:07:20 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.2 By: Shelli http://www.naughty-and-spice.com/2007/05/28/were-here/#comment-184 Shelli Fri, 01 Jun 2007 19:55:27 +0000 http://www.naughty-and-spice.com/2007/05/28/were-here/#comment-184 Hey Patricia!! If I could find both...I'd never leave the house. Or I would but...well you know what I'm saying! Julie, I've totally heard that saying. I'm the freak in the bedroom, but unfortunately the freak in the living room too. Sooo I'm just a freak? :bounce: Hey Patricia!! If I could find both…I’d never leave the house. Or I would but…well you know what I’m saying!

Julie, I’ve totally heard that saying. I’m the freak in the bedroom, but unfortunately the freak in the living room too. Sooo I’m just a freak? :bounce:

]]> By: Julie http://www.naughty-and-spice.com/2007/05/28/were-here/#comment-180 Julie Fri, 01 Jun 2007 18:50:46 +0000 http://www.naughty-and-spice.com/2007/05/28/were-here/#comment-180 Patricia wrote: Maybe there could be a mix of both in a man (passion and a loving man).. who knows!? Maybe it's like that old saying -- I know some of you have heard it -- "a lady in the living room, a whore in the bedroom". :oops: We all flinch at that term. Men supposedly dream about this. Okay, I'm married, but I have a raging crush on a man who looks very proper and buttoned-down in his daily life, but I've seen photographs of the naughty twinkle in his eyes! What's going on in there? It drives me wild! Julie p.s. Shelli, I love this blog! What a great question! Patricia wrote:

Maybe there could be a mix of both in a man (passion and a loving man).. who knows!?

Maybe it’s like that old saying — I know some of you have heard it — “a lady in the living room, a whore in the bedroom”. :oops: We all flinch at that term. Men supposedly dream about this.

Okay, I’m married, but I have a raging crush on a man who looks very proper and buttoned-down in his daily life, but I’ve seen photographs of the naughty twinkle in his eyes! What’s going on in there? It drives me wild!

Julie

p.s. Shelli, I love this blog! What a great question!

]]> By: Patricia http://www.naughty-and-spice.com/2007/05/28/were-here/#comment-175 Patricia Fri, 01 Jun 2007 17:07:57 +0000 http://www.naughty-and-spice.com/2007/05/28/were-here/#comment-175 I like Judy's response.. I have to say that passion and love are two different things. The guys I have had passion with were not guys that I'd want a loving relationship with.. they were "bad" guys. Maybe there could be a mix of both in a man (passion and a loving man).. who knows!? I like Judy’s response.. I have to say that passion and love are two different things. The guys I have had passion with were not guys that I’d want a loving relationship with.. they were “bad” guys.

Maybe there could be a mix of both in a man (passion and a loving man).. who knows!?

]]> By: Shelli http://www.naughty-and-spice.com/2007/05/28/were-here/#comment-172 Shelli Fri, 01 Jun 2007 16:43:14 +0000 http://www.naughty-and-spice.com/2007/05/28/were-here/#comment-172 And Julie (I plan to reply to your email soon, I promise!) I agree. Even bad sex is good sex to men. :woot: :wootrock: :hitit: And Julie (I plan to reply to your email soon, I promise!) I agree. Even bad sex is good sex to men. :woot: :wootrock: :hitit:

]]> By: Shelli http://www.naughty-and-spice.com/2007/05/28/were-here/#comment-171 Shelli Fri, 01 Jun 2007 16:41:37 +0000 http://www.naughty-and-spice.com/2007/05/28/were-here/#comment-171 Hey Kate! Good to see you here! See that's a good relationship to have too though. And that's the question, can you see yourself with him in years to come? He sounds great! Hey Kate! Good to see you here! See that’s a good relationship to have too though. And that’s the question, can you see yourself with him in years to come? He sounds great!

]]> By: Julie http://www.naughty-and-spice.com/2007/05/28/were-here/#comment-169 Julie Fri, 01 Jun 2007 15:21:31 +0000 http://www.naughty-and-spice.com/2007/05/28/were-here/#comment-169 Okay, the software cut off my response to Kate ;-). First of all, Kate, I think The Boyfriend's a keeper. Is there a man alive that is less than thrilled over any experience with the wild thing? :lol: Julie Okay, the software cut off my response to Kate ;-). First of all, Kate, I think The Boyfriend’s a keeper.

Is there a man alive that is less than thrilled over any experience with the wild thing? :lol:

Julie

]]> By: Julie http://www.naughty-and-spice.com/2007/05/28/were-here/#comment-168 Julie Fri, 01 Jun 2007 15:15:50 +0000 http://www.naughty-and-spice.com/2007/05/28/were-here/#comment-168 Kate wrote: >And–as silly as this sounds–he’s willing to have bad sex and laugh at that, too. He doesn’t get all caught up in having to be perfect every time (I really should take a lesson from him). Kate wrote:

>And–as silly as this sounds–he’s willing to have bad sex and laugh at that, too. He doesn’t get all caught up in having to be perfect every time (I really should take a lesson from him).

]]> By: Kate D. http://www.naughty-and-spice.com/2007/05/28/were-here/#comment-166 Kate D. Fri, 01 Jun 2007 13:39:39 +0000 http://www.naughty-and-spice.com/2007/05/28/were-here/#comment-166 Hmm. This may not be the best time for me to respond... I'm a teacher at the end of her first year (and, not coincidentally, her rope). The Boyfriend and I moved in together in January, and I kept waiting for "the honeymoon phase." However, I think the honeymoon phase got buried beneath a ton-and-a-half of ungraded Animal Farm essays. The Boyfriend and I have been together 3.5 years. Over that time, I've been unemployed, a graduate student, and a teacher... and I've noticed something. Our sex life is so much better during the summer, or winter break, or whenever it is I can turn off the stressful little hamster wheel in my head. I've come to the conclusion that it's very hard for perfectionists to get the toe-curl. It does happen, but you have to turn off the inner critic. The reason I love The Boyfriend is because we laugh together. Some of the quirks that I can't even stand about myself he manages to find endearing. He doesn't gripe when I fall asleep at 5:30pm on a Friday night. And--as silly as this sounds--he's willing to have bad sex and laugh at that, too. He doesn't get all caught up in having to be perfect every time (I really should take a lesson from him). He deals admirably when my own stressed weirdness messes with my head... and therefore our relationship. And when I'm ready to quit climbing the walls and focus on something pleasant for a change? Oh, the toe-curl! Hmm. This may not be the best time for me to respond… I’m a teacher at the end of her first year (and, not coincidentally, her rope). The Boyfriend and I moved in together in January, and I kept waiting for “the honeymoon phase.” However, I think the honeymoon phase got buried beneath a ton-and-a-half of ungraded Animal Farm essays.

The Boyfriend and I have been together 3.5 years. Over that time, I’ve been unemployed, a graduate student, and a teacher… and I’ve noticed something. Our sex life is so much better during the summer, or winter break, or whenever it is I can turn off the stressful little hamster wheel in my head. I’ve come to the conclusion that it’s very hard for perfectionists to get the toe-curl. It does happen, but you have to turn off the inner critic.

The reason I love The Boyfriend is because we laugh together. Some of the quirks that I can’t even stand about myself he manages to find endearing. He doesn’t gripe when I fall asleep at 5:30pm on a Friday night. And–as silly as this sounds–he’s willing to have bad sex and laugh at that, too. He doesn’t get all caught up in having to be perfect every time (I really should take a lesson from him). He deals admirably when my own stressed weirdness messes with my head… and therefore our relationship. And when I’m ready to quit climbing the walls and focus on something pleasant for a change?

Oh, the toe-curl!

]]> By: Shelli http://www.naughty-and-spice.com/2007/05/28/were-here/#comment-153 Shelli Fri, 01 Jun 2007 01:03:15 +0000 http://www.naughty-and-spice.com/2007/05/28/were-here/#comment-153 Judy I'm so glad you came by! I love hearing everyone's stories. And that's fabulous after 10 years you still have it. Judy I’m so glad you came by! I love hearing everyone’s stories. And that’s fabulous after 10 years you still have it.

]]> By: Judy Dawn http://www.naughty-and-spice.com/2007/05/28/were-here/#comment-152 Judy Dawn Fri, 01 Jun 2007 00:47:02 +0000 http://www.naughty-and-spice.com/2007/05/28/were-here/#comment-152 I haven’t expressed myself in the loop too much, but once I viewed this blog, I had to speak out. I remember when I met my husband, and when I KNEW he was the one. The heart racing, hands sweating, loss of thought, and need for more of him above anything else, hasn’t worn off after 10 years of marriage. However, we dated for five before that. I had goals to complete before I allowed myself marriage. And I wanted to be sure I could handle the long term thing with a passionate man. I worried about losing attraction over the years. I’m happy to say that to this day, we still have the same chemical reaction to one another :lol: . With time, we’ve become even better friends and the growth only heightens our passions. So, yeah, it’s out there. In my case, I just turned around and looked at him, and knew. I also agree with most when they mention that it’s an individual selection. What toots my horn may not toot someone else’s. I haven’t expressed myself in the loop too much, but once I viewed this blog, I had to speak out. I remember when I met my husband, and when I KNEW he was the one. The heart racing, hands sweating, loss of thought, and need for more of him above anything else, hasn’t worn off after 10 years of marriage. However, we dated for five before that. I had goals to complete before I allowed myself marriage. And I wanted to be sure I could handle the long term thing with a passionate man. I worried about losing attraction over the years. I’m happy to say that to this day, we still have the same chemical reaction to one another :lol: . With time, we’ve become even better friends and the growth only heightens our passions.
So, yeah, it’s out there. In my case, I just turned around and looked at him, and knew. I also agree with most when they mention that it’s an individual selection. What toots my horn may not toot someone else’s.

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